- Comfort her through rough times emotionally and physically, a girl likes to feel protected by her man...
- Learn to touch and caress her body sensually, but don't treat her like your property or just like a piece of meat
- Surprise her with a candle lit dinner and wine...
- Tell her a funny joke/fact...Comedy always makes everyone cheer up
- Answer her phone call or text her back!!! Do NOT wait 3 days to reply to her message
- When she makes plans, and you tell her you're up for it, don't break them...It will devastate her
- If you're away from her call her and tell her you miss her, or call to say goodnight/good morning
- Surprise her with small gifts...even if you bought it at the Dollar Store!!! (although Tiffany's would be much better ;)
- Ask her opinion...it shows her you care about what she thinks, and makes her feel good you need her help
TRUST: Trust is the number one problem in every relationship. If you have no trust in her, and don't give her any privacy and time for her personal enjoyment, how can you expect her to trust you? Do not give her reasons not to trust you. Once the trust is broken, it may never heal...Trust has to work both ways...
COMPLIMENTS: You are with your girl because there are things you like about her... So tell her what you like!!! Tell her you like the way she giggles, how her hair smells, or how soft her lips are, or maybe that you loved the dinner she cooked for you. (Silly stuff like that gives us butterflies in our bellies) Girls don't need constant compliments about how beautiful they are, but we do love small (what might seem like useless to others) compliments...It shows that you care about us and that you really like us for who we are, and not just our external appearance.
GIFTS: Don't forget!!! There are 4 extremely important gift occasions in a relationship...Once you forget about one of them you have earned the stress that she will cause you. If you are in a financial crisis, don't think that all girls expect diamonds... We care more about how much thought you put in the gift. Victoria's Secret gift card? Yes, very nice but not too much though put in it. On the other side a fresh bouquet of her favorite flowers sent to her door on that special day...Very thoughtful. Or a pair of stud earrings in her favorite color. Anything really, is better than nothing. And if you truly don't have $1 to spare, then go pick some flowers and write her a love letter...she will be very satisfied and understanding, but if you're a big spender and spend $10 on her gift then it makes her feel as if she is worthless to you...
- BIRTHDAY- do NOT forget to buy her a present on her birthday, she will feel neglected and unappreciated, and will possibly NEVER forgive you...seriously...not getting her a birthday gift is the equivalent of slapping her on the face with an over sized steel glove...
- ANNIVERSARY- the anniversary is probably one of the most memorable days for her since that's when it all started, so not buying a gift would simply signify that you don't care about the relationship what-so-ever
- CHRISTMAS- Come on now! Need I say more? It's Christmas!!! It's the TIME to give! Literally!!!
- VALENTINE'S DAY- yes, it is a stupid made up day for marketers and companies to boost sales, but at least it serves a good purpose... tell her you love her...
So now that you know, don't question why she's acting the way she is after you had forgot about her special day... If you can't take the time out of your busy life to show her you care on those special days, than why are you with her? It's better if you two break up so you can both find someone who does care!!!
Girls, don't be afraid to tell your guy what is on your mind. Sometimes guys can really be just clueless to why we are upset. Don't expect guys to know why you are mad at them. Some guys are just simple minded and don't stop to think that what they said could possibly upset you. If you want them to know, be clear about it, don't beat around the bush. Sugar coating the situation will only make the snowball bigger.
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